Maybe this is guy and girl thinking…

If a girls car is broke she wants sympathy and a chat and someone to listen, give her a hug and somehow let her fix her own car or some crap like that.

Guys want a mechanic to fix their car so they can carry on driving, maybe pimp it up so goes faster.

Hence councilling aint all that much use in fixing the emotional probmes of say guys at least as does not follow the mechanically fix car principle.

Ie in earlier posts.

if girl cant pull and all lonley get sexy clothes, sexy dance moves, teach how boys think & how to chat them up, same for guys only get them to be more cocky bad boy that girls like & maybe guitar lessons. Maybe a fireman course and expertise in chocolate making

Or something like that.

Ie something useful.

That solves the problem.

Once & for all.

But how the hell do you fix things when over a decade behind most people? bit difficult to catch up.

You cant exactly implant all the mems
So is that why all these mums or ladies suggest things like pyrinks and councellors… as some how they can work things out from a chit chat.

Whilst a kid being bullied if a bloke would benefit from say a summer of army training in unarmed combat so can beat up the bully.
If you think thats sexist why is it that boyfriends get grief when a girl says she has a problem and the guy simply fixes it for her
Lets see … A lot of dumb people here on about help or magic mushrooms. Now if not so below can get it why cant the rest of you.

As if you cant get a simple concept like …

Only practical solutions which actively fix a problem are any use to anyone

But psyrinks, help, concelling etc really help nobody as not practically and actively fixing the problem as only chit chatting.

Ie they are not giving say guitar lessons and self defence lessons so a guy can stop getting bullied and impress girls.

A practical solution to somone who cant pull and feels lonley and gets bullied.

or removing someones glasses, getting them contacts or eye laser surgery, and send them to a stylist to replace wardrobe and give cool ness lessons.

Or say if somone is upset as due to a sprained ankle they cant dance… chatting wont help. Only pyssio and maybe pain killers or surgery helps.

that would be the bloke solution.

Now why is that so hard for people to grasp
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Suzie maybe as more concerned with more important stuff… like futures, lives, stopping hurt, ruined lives and fixing people up.

I take it somone found the cure for aids you would be nit picking on full stops in the right place
Victoria…

1) girls tend to go for band members like the singer or guitarists… ie groupies. He practices with them if they dont stay and be a girlfriend.

the practice teaches him about girls and gets him confident in feeling good looking so think he has a chance and confidence asking somone specail out.

Plus will know what to do with them.

Plus being on stage… lots of fans= confidence

As for beating up bully.

Well bully wont hurt him anymore and neither will others. if relly flattens bully can see to it bully does not hurt others and becomes hero.

The gun pulling insident on you. In that case it may help as simply truma… not an underlying reason.

And councelling may poitn out problems it does not really fix them.

And had the councelling thats how I know its pointless as did not teach or fix what was needed then, cerainly cant now.

How do you catch up 15 or more years without doing the stuff so can compete twith those who have>?

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